build is non-deterministic

[thdxr]

if I run make multiple times in this package, we get varying results in ./build/Makefile

see here

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< Makefile: $(srcdir)/../../../.cache/node-gyp/16.20.0/include/node/common.gypi $(srcdir)/../../../../../usr/lib/node_modules/node-gyp/addon.gypi $(srcdir)/build/config.gypi $(srcdir)/binding.gyp
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> Makefile: $(srcdir)/../../../../../usr/lib/node_modules/node-gyp/addon.gypi $(srcdir)/binding.gyp $(srcdir)/build/config.gypi $(srcdir)/../../../.cache/node-gyp/16.20.0/include/node/common.gypi

this causes issues in downstream deployment systems where it appears as if this dependency has always changed and causes extra deploys

having trouble tracking down the source of this so figured i'd make an issue