Create issue on upstream CI failure

[anissa111]

Overview

This PR implements issue creation on upstream CI failure and updates the upstream testing python version from 3.12 to 3.13.

• based on this PR from geocat-comp: CI Update (upstream failure auto issue creation + --last-failed) NCAR/geocat-comp#830, which was in turn based on something xarray is doing.
• workflow will check if there is already an issue with the specified issue title/tag that is open in the repository and update that one if it exists.
• in order for the whole workflow to not report "success" if the automatic issue creation succeeds regardless of the test jobs' success, added a report-failure job at the end that will run and always fail if the testing job fails
• (after testing on my fork) added check to make sure issue creation will only happen for runs from UXARRAY/uxarray main.

See this working on my fork (workflow run, created + updated issue):

Closes #1472

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• An issue is linked created and linked
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[erogluorhan]

Thanks very much for introducing it here @anissa111 ; it looks great to me!